What a week :(

This week as been terrible from the jump.

Rewind to Monday night, I get a phone call, I don't recognize the number, so I answer anyway. It was a member of an organization that I am the Vice President of the auxiliary for. I am also planning the Christmas party, this individual wants us to have a band at the party. He also tells me that another member of my organization, and the former president, gave him my number, this is a person who I considered a friend. There are 3 reasons that we feel the band is not a good choice for this event, #1 they only play country music, our members range from senior citizens to teens, #2 its very expensive compared to having a DJ, and #3 a DJ would play longer.

I explained to the member that we had basically decided, nothing set in stone, but that we would not be having the band. He then proceeded to raise his voice and tell me that I was not doing my job. What a jerk! So I called my President and she called him, and made him call and apologize, just it wasn't even a real apology. Here is the just of the voicemail, no I did not even get it while I was talking to him, "I'm sorry if I was rude or got upset with you, but I just wanted to make sure you were doing what you are supposed to."

So I tell my husband and he is ready to go off, it was bad. Then I tell him who gave him my number so he text that girls husband telling him that if she ever gives my number out again, both of their numbers will be blocked from our phones.

The next day "my so called friend" calls to tell me that she is sorry. I didn't answer the phone so she sent me a text, which I forwarded to my husband. He then forwards me the text from her husband, that says "'A" stated she did not give out her number." Funny thing she just sent me a text to apologize. At this point I was so mad that I couldn't talk to her. They LIED!

I finally text her back and she called again, so I figured I may as well talk to her, thinking it would be oh, I'm so sorry it won't happen again, and it would be over.

Boy was I wrong, after the oh, I'm so sorry part, she proceeded to tell me what I am doing wrong in running the organization. Yet we have doubled our membership in the last two months. That all of these people keep calling her and telling that they are not happy with the way things are going. If they are so displeased then why aren't they coming to us?? At the end of the conversation she says well I'm going to let you go, unless you have something you would like to say, and I didn't know what to say.

I think I have finally seen the true colors of this individual, and that she never really was a friend in the first place. If someone can't be happy for you when you are successful then I guess they really are not a friend. It hurts because I have given the last 4 years being a good friend to this person.

Oh well its time to move on, I'm headed to the beach for 5 days, that should get things off my mind and hopefully everything will have cooled off by the time I get back home.